In Praise of Slow
Rating: | ★★★★★ |
Category: | Books |
Genre: | Nonfiction |
Author: | Carl Honoré |
I've long been searching for something that would explain to me why I am what I am or why I do things the way I do things. I'm pretty much certain that I walk, talk and even think slow. Some people get bothered or irritated by it. Some even ridicule me for it. I have given those remarks a typically long but hard look. And I was just about to conclude that these people were right and it's about time I started speeding up things. But as it is my character to take things slowly, I procrastinated and decided to put it off for another day. That day is yet to come.
One day, while I was browsing through my favorite bookstore, and contemplating on how I will actually change from what I am to (slow) to what I should be (fast), my eye caught a book with a very interesting title - In Praise of Slow. It instantaneously drew me to it. My mind was screaming, "This is it. This is what I've been looking for all these years!"
I flipped through the first few pages. And the very first few sentences grabbed me as if saying to me, no screaming at me, "This is you! This is the story of your life!"
The first few paragraphs read: "ON A SUN-BLEACHED AFTERNOON in the summer of 1985, my teenage tour of Europe grinds to a halt in a square on the outskirts of Rome. The bus back into town is twenty minutes late and shows no sign of appearing. Yet the delay does not bother me. Instead of pacing up and down the sidewalk, or calling the bus company to lodge a complaint, I slip on my Walkman, lie down on a bench and listen to Simon and Garfunkel sing about the joys of slowing down and making the moment last. Every detail of the scene is engraved on my memory: two small boys kick a soccer ball around a medieval fountain; branches scrape against the top of a stone wall; an old widow carries her vegetables home in a net bag. Fast-forward fifteen years, and everything has changed. The scene shifts to Rome's busy Fiumicino Airport, and I am a foreign correspondent rushing to catch a flight home to London. Instead of kickin' down the cobblestones and feelin' groovy, I dash through the departure lounge, silently cursing anyone who crosses my path at a slower pace. Rather than listen to folk music on a cheap Walkman, I talk on a mobile phone to an editor thousands of miles away. At the gate, I join the back end of a long lineup, where there is nothing to do except, well, nothing. Only I am no longer capable of doing nothing. To make the wait more productive, to make it seem less like waiting, I start skimming a newspaper. And that is when my eyes come upon the article that will inspire me eventually to write a book about slowing down."
Wow! It struck me like a truck. Kung baga, natauhan ako.The mention of a song by Simon and Garfunkel, "Feelin' Groovy," which carry the lyrics, "...slow down you move too fast, you got to make the morning last..." also struck a chord in me and got me humming the tune.
From the moment I saw the book and read it's intro, I got hooked and I devoured the book with gusto. Now I return to read it from time to time just to assure me that there's nothing wrong with me, that I am in fact now a member of a growing movement worldwide that is challenging "the cult of speed."
When I hear people say, "take time to smell the roses," I know exactly why and what they really mean by it.
Read the book and slowly wallow in its pleasure. By the way, this may not have been tested or certified by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) but I am sure this will help you avoid stroke and heart attacks. Perhaps I should classify this under Health, Mind and Body.
What do you think? No rush...
Anyone interested to read the book, please PM me your email address and I'll send you a .pdf file of the book.
ReplyDeleteHere's a bonus - S&G's Feelin Groovy
simon garfunkel feelin groovy mp3 | lyricsfree music downloads | music videos | pictures
me! I shall speed-read through it (no kidding) because am multi-tasking (ooh, the irony of it grips me by the tail..but I'm not skidding to a stop...I may still run but on a slower speed though)...
ReplyDeletePM ko sa kabila :-)
No need to do that. Puede mo naman balik-balikan at your own leisurely pace.
ReplyDeleteI just sent you the .pdf file.
In the same vein, Jessica Zafra was pointing out similar issues with the fast-moving world in her column yesterday. Let me check if it's online. Here it is. "Turn them Off! Turn them Off!" http://www.philstar.com/ArticlePrinterFriendly.aspx?articleId=609070
ReplyDeletePls send me a copy, too. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteDone. Pls check your email.
ReplyDeletethanks! got it.
ReplyDeleteheaps of thanks Tochie..
ReplyDeletejust downloaded it now...321 pages...thank you..
ReplyDelete... hmm sounds interesting by the way you described the book sir...since the title is slow..i would give you my comment after ___ years...slow ko rin babasahin eh...JOKE lang po....
ReplyDeleteOK then, here's a faster way to appreciate it, Merz. Here's a TED video with the author talking about the book:
ReplyDeleteIf you noticed, he's speaking very fast. That's because he's got a very limited time :-)
Ok, Cat. Enjoy the book, especially Chapter 3.
ReplyDeletehahaha...padala na lang po ng pdf file sa email q sir..wlang speakers itung pc d2...syonganger ang bumile eh...kulang kulang....(c philip rumbaoa po iyun kasama c peejay hahahaha)
ReplyDeleteOn the way, Merz.
ReplyDeleteAgain I will read this later. Am into slow food by the way. Am all for s- l-o-w.
ReplyDeleteWhat i read from what you shared with us, is facinating & has already made me feel some better...i'm a type A & slowing down should be more relaxingly pleasant...
ReplyDeleteTed Ideas are super!...i'll PM you!...thanks Tochie
File sent, Angie.
ReplyDeleteme! please send me one! and yeah, it took me a while before i was able to finish reading your review...hehe!
ReplyDeleteSure MeAnn. But have you sent me your email address (via PM)?
ReplyDeleteMy Kapampangan lola used to call me "Pecat" because (supposedly) I was very slow....but I don't remember what activities she was referring to. These days, I am still a slow eater, slow reader, slow writer....but, I do prefer to walk fast.
ReplyDeleteTochie, i got three books from Barnnes & Noble...for my two friends who can't or doesn't know how to slow down..maybe this will change their phase of life...i love my book!...i like that song, "Feeling Groovy" too...thanks to you friend...
ReplyDeleteThe simple pleasures of slow.
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome Angie.
ReplyDeleteHey, guys. Have you heard about Google Instant? See here - http://www.google.com/instant/#utm_campaign=launch&utm_medium=van&utm_source=instant
ReplyDeleteIt supposed to cut your Google search by 2-5 seconds (per search I assume). Google claims that "...If everyone uses Google Instant globally, we estimate this will save more than 3.5 billion seconds a day. That’s 11 hours saved every second."
So what will "everyone" in the globe do with the "11 hours saved?"
This another one of those pointless gimmicks by the "speed freaks."
Ok. Just sent yo the file.
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